Hum Tum

It was their first date, they didn’t want anything very romantic it would have just made them more uncomfortable so they decided to meet at mac donalds, and then hang out at a mall. She reached there on time and was waiting at the bus stop for him, he came there in sometime, they went to MacDonald’s .

He offered to treat her and went to buy something to eat. He got the burger which got mayonnaise it in which she hated from the bottom of her heart. But still she gulped it down her throat.

They then had a really nice talk, he told her about his friends and shared some funny moments. It was really going very well. They then decided to take a walk it was 2 in the afternoon and the sun was just so unpleasant that day, but still they continued to walk and talk. They went to a neaby mall and just talked for what seemed like hours. “if my aaji ( grand mother ) would have been alive now, I would have told her that I have a girlfriend and she would have loved you”, this was the sweetest thing he said that day and she remembers it till this day.

It was time to leave it was already 4.30 now. They were so not ready to say goodbye. All they wanted was to wait and talk to eternity, so they decided to take a longg walk back home which trust me was really very long. So they set of their way back home from haji ali to dadar.

He dropped her home and went to meet his friends. By the time he reached there he was all tired and sweaty. “ what did you do with her? don’t tell me you did everything on the very first date”, his friend teased him.

Noo, we just walked from haji ali to dadar, he said.

His friends were amazed that he made a girl walk that long on the first date. They looked at eachother and laughed!

What is it?

What is it?

As I have told you that mom is out of town for a weak, I am solely in charge of the house. And I would like to tell you people that I am a growing from a girl to a women. Things like cleaning the dishes and keeping the house clean and everything which were annoying to me some years back is changing I am doing my dishes myself keeping the house as clean as I can. I have even tried cooking this time. So this is really a very nice phase I would say. And yes with all this going on I am also doing things that I love to do. Like I danced a lot today. And watched 2 movies back to back

1- The hoiday.

2- The ugly truth.

3- You’ve got mail.

Talking about the last movie. What is that one thing that tell you that this is the man of my dream or he/she is the one I would marry and have kids with?

When I met my man, I could not recognize him. we had met online. Sometimes I think, out of like zillion people on net, why did I send a friend request only to him? and not some other tom dick or harry? He is a shy guy, who never really used to talk to girls. Then why did he talk to me? There was something between us. We were from the same school and from the same college, and we got to know that after we started talking online, we even had a like zillion common friends but still we didn’t meet anytime before that day.

We had decided not to meet in real life ever. But then one of his friend invited me for dinner. and we met for the first time after knowing eachother online for 6months.

Even then I didn’t recognize that he was the one. He proposed me the next day which was completely shocking. I was not expecting anything like that from him and still when he proposed me I said yes, without even thinking twice and ever since we are together. Yeah we have like loads of ups and downs we fight like crazy I have like zillion problems with him but still I cant even imagine living without him. and so goes for him we cant think about breaking up atall.

Some people say there is nothing like destiny and you have to make your own destiny. I would disagree. I would say there is destiny and also that you have to make your own destiny. like you’ll always have two options for everything in life that you are destined to. Like for example, you will pass this year in your exams that is your destiny, but the options are if you want to study hard or just copy. ( I know this sounds filmy and unrealistic but for me this is the truth)

seriously i would love to know how you all define love? like how do you all think you'll get to know that his is the right person i was looking for?

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love you all.

Picsssssssssss

I have got a new obsession these days. Editing :D oh well nothing like professional an all but as a timepass I am spending hours together on photoshop and other softwares to edit some pics of mine. I will upload them soon.

Its really fun editing pics, feels like I am really putting in life to those pics.

I would really love to hear some comments from you on them J

The other day I saw lux perfect bride… what crap that. God! I seriously hope these reality tv show people get some life.

Ps - I am going through writers block these days. So will be back in a few days with more posts!

Keep blogging till then, even though I am not writing I am going through all your posts and commenting on them.

Following are some pics that I like!

Tag tag taaaag!

Ok people, I am totally out of any topics to write about nor is anything happening in my life to write about. So I am sorta out of the blogging thing. But still I am keeping up with all the blog updates and commenting on them. And thanks a lot all, to still visit my blog and comment on them <3

So here is a tag, Mr. sid me tagged me and the rules are as follows.

Rules:
Respond and rework – answer these questions on your blog, replace one question that you dislike with a question of your own, and add one more question to the list. Then tag eight or ten other new set of people.


1.What is your current obsession?

Books Movies music!.


2. What are you wearing today?

shorts and a T shirt

3. What’s for dinner?
its 9.04 in the morning so I have no clue whats for dinner..


4. What’s the last thing you bought?
hmm.. a sari.

5. What are you listening to right now?

nothing.. the sound of me typing keyboard buttons.


6. What do you think about the person who tagged you?
very helpful.

7. If you could have a house totally paid for, fully furnished anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?

Mumbai.. facing shivaji park! :D

8. What are your must-have pieces for summer?
cotton clothes I guess!

9. If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?

France


10. Which language do you want to learn?

Italian :P


11. What’s your favorite quote?
hmmmm…its filmy but I love it! Hum ek baar jite hai, ek baar marte hai, shaadi bhi ek baar hoti hai, aur pyaar bhi!

12. Who do you want to meet right now?
rohan


13. What is your favorite color?

Blue

14. What is your favorite piece of clothing in your own closet?

a black top.. this damn cute


15. What is your dream job?
Journalism


16. What’s your favorite magazine?

Seventeeen, sad they have stopped it in India now L


17. If you had $100 now, what would you spend it on?

Shoppinggg….for everyone and obviously for me as well .


18. What do you consider a fashion faux pas?

Nothing as such


19. Who according to you is the most over-rated style icon?

No one


20. What kind of haircut do you prefer?

well.. anything that wil suit me

21. What are you going to do after this?

read some blogs


22. What are your favorite movies?
Mannnyyyyy…. For starters, serendipity, French kiss, when harry met sally, Ps, I love you.


23.How many tabs are turned on in ur browser right now?
9

24. What inspires you?

Many things


25. Give us three styling tips that always work for you.

* Jeans and black cute top
* Jeans and white top
* a Pony tail


26. What do you do when you “have nothing to wear” (even though your closet’s packed)?

wear the first thing I see


27. Coffee or tea?

Coffee.. actually both


28. What do you do when you are feeling low or terribly depressed?
eat


30. Which other blogs do you love visiting?

loads….


31. Favorite Dessert/Sweet?

Cake!


32. Favorite Season?

Winter.. and rainy


33. If I come to your house now, what would u cook for me?
well, I can do Maggie if u want something more than that. Then it would be on your own risk


34. What is the right way to avoid people who purposefully hurt you?

I don’t avoid them, I manage to enter their life and ruin it completely.


35. What are you afraid of the most?

darkness and insects and barking dogs



36:What brings a smile on your face instantly?

Chocolates flowers and cute things

37:What makes me the most sad?

When I see someone sad.

Well, yes… now that you have read all the questions there is no escaping, you have to answer them...

and i tag each and everyone of you, who has read this :D

Me aur meri maggie!

it was after school me and my boyfriend decided to spend the day at my place watching movies one after the other as my mother was out of town for a month. after the tiring school and french classes later we came back home around 2 pm. starving to eat something. just then i made a streaming hot bowl of maggie and we ate it together from the same bowl. made us sortof close. and it was fun watching movies reclining on bed and eating maggie. maggie used to save us from starving back in school days.

and now 3 years later, its still the same. whenever mom's not home and i have to eat something its always maggie.

Maggie has touched many people’s life. I have kids in my neighborhood who come back home from school and have a bowl of Maggie. We sometimes even have a Maggie get- together when all the kids in the society gather at my place and we enjoy our Maggie.

So thankyou to whosoever who created Maggie! You have saved us a lot of time from starving.

P.S – if you are thinking why I am suddenly falling in love with Maggie, well then it is because I was starving a hour back and Maggie saved me again :P

Teere Saang

Teera Saang

I saw teere saang recently, before it was released people used to say it’s the Indian version of juno ( Which is soo not true). Yes the story line is the same about a girl getting pregnant when is she still underage. But the way it is shown is totally different. It showed the real Indian mentality.

One thing they said in the movie and I truly agree to it is this that what really determines whether the girl is mature or not? As they said In the movie, there are different rules and different age limits of when is a girl legally said to be an adult in different countries. If a girl and a boy are mature enough to have sex then I guess they are mature enough to even have a baby and get married. Look, I am not saying everyone in this world should do that, but if by mistake something like this happens then what is wrong with that? Why does society treats it like something bad? Like something evil? As if its something that a human being should not do?

Now you’ll say, that if a girl gets pregnant when is still young she wont be able to take care of the child and all. Well yes, agreed. But then what are her parents for then? anywhich ways these days both parents work and the kids are grown up by their grand parents. So if they can do it then, then why not now?

Parents always want their daughters to get married as soon as they reach 23 or 24, but if their daughter gets pregnant at 20 it’s a crime. I mean WTF???

One other thing I liked about the movie is this that, they didn’t show that they get married and left their studies and settle down and all that crap. But rather showed that she contines her studies and both the families accept their kids.

I guess, Indian people really need to change their way of thinking atleast a bit.

I would say this movie was satish kaushiks best movie ever.

P.S - I don’t know what you all will say to this, but I would love to hear your views on this matter.

Teere Saang

Teera Saang

I saw teere saang recently, before it was released people used to say it’s the Indian version of juno ( Which is soo not true). Yes the story line is the same about a girl getting pregnant when is she still underage. But the way it is shown is totally different. It showed the real Indian mentality.

One thing they said in the movie and I truly agree to it is this that what really determines whether the girl is mature or not? As they said In the movie, there are different rules and different age limits of when is a girl legally said to be an adult in different countries. If a girl and a boy are mature enough to have sex then I guess they are mature enough to even have a baby and get married. Look, I am not saying everyone in this world should do that, but if by mistake something like this happens then what is wrong with that? Why does society treats it like something bad? Like something evil? As if its something that a human being should not do?

Now you’ll say, that if a girl gets pregnant when is still young she wont be able to take care of the child and all. Well yes, agreed. But then what are her parents for then? anywhich ways these days both parents work and the kids are grown up by their grand parents. So if they can do it then, then why not now?

Parents always want their daughters to get married as soon as they reach 23 or 24, but if their daughter gets pregnant at 20 it’s a crime. I mean WTF???

One other thing I liked about the movie is this that, they didn’t show that they get married and left their studies and settle down and all that crap. But rather showed that she contines her studies and both the families accept their kids.

I guess, Indian people really need to change their way of thinking atleast a bit.

I would say this movie was satish kaushiks best movie ever.

P.S - I don’t know what you all will say to this, but I would love to hear your views on this matter.

Living without you

I keep looking in all the places,

Where you are supposed to be.

But I never seem to find you,

And you’re all I long to see.

I just can’t seem t understand,

What is that changed your mind.

All this time I thought I knew you,

When really, I was blind.

But know that I do not hate you,

And I know I never will.

Because I cared about you then,

And I care about you still.

Even though you hurt me,

I can’t seem to let you go.

But I will go on without you,

And I want to make sure you know.

It will take some time to mend,

The damage that you’ve done.

But the broken hearts do heal,

That’s where strength comes from.

For now, the tears may be falling,

And my thoughts keep circling to you

But soon, things will get better,

If you have hope, then they always do.

- Kristy glassen

chicken soup for the teenage soul on love and friendship.

Living without you

I keep looking in all the places,

Where you are supposed to be.

But I never seem to find you,

And you’re all I long to see.

I just can’t seem t understand,

What is that changed your mind.

All this time I thought I knew you,

When really, I was blind.

But know that I do not hate you,

And I know I never will.

Because I cared about you then,

And I care about you still.

Even though you hurt me,

I can’t seem to let you go.

But I will go on without you,

And I want to make sure you know.

It will take some time to mend,

The damage that you’ve done.

But the broken hearts do heal,

That’s where strength comes from.

For now, the tears may be falling,

And my thoughts keep circling to you

But soon, things will get better,

If you have hope, then they always do.

- Kristy glassen

chicken soup for the teenage soul on love and friendship.

Man To Women

While love is love, there are certainly a number of ways to show it to someone. When you are a man that wants to say “I love you” to a woman you might want to remember that women enjoy the romantic side of love.

In knowing this, you should consider trying o be as romantic as you can in orderto show her and tell that you love her.

Here are some creatively unique ideas –

- find out the song that she considers “yours” and play it the next time you are together.

- Create a whole day in which she gets to plan what you’ll do together – no matter what she chooses, be happy and supportive of her choices.

- Take her dancing, any kind of dancing that she likes. Dance with her :D

By taking the time to come up with something that really shows her that you love her, she’ll be able to thnk back on that special memory whenever she needs an extra boost.

Man To Women

While love is love, there are certainly a number of ways to show it to someone. When you are a man that wants to say “I love you” to a woman you might want to remember that women enjoy the romantic side of love.

In knowing this, you should consider trying o be as romantic as you can in orderto show her and tell that you love her.

Here are some creatively unique ideas –

- find out the song that she considers “yours” and play it the next time you are together.

- Create a whole day in which she gets to plan what you’ll do together – no matter what she chooses, be happy and supportive of her choices.

- Take her dancing, any kind of dancing that she likes. Dance with her :D

By taking the time to come up with something that really shows her that you love her, she’ll be able to thnk back on that special memory whenever she needs an extra boost.

Patch up!

Where there is love there are fights as well, and sometimes it just gets a bit over the top and then the blame game starts, but one thing is for sure that whosoever is wrong should say sorry and try to make up again. So heres a fun way to make up with your partner,

Just take a picture of her in which she is happy and smiling, stick it on a piece of paper and write. ( you can copy the samething and give to her, theres no need to be original all that matters is what you feel about your partner and what you want to convey through what you write )

“ dear ( your partners name ) this is the smile that I fell in love with. It lights up the room, it lights up my life, and I cannot imagine a day without it. When we fight, it becomes dark and I cant think straingt until we figure things out. I don’t want to miss your smile for one more minute.

I promise that I never mean to hurt you when I am angry and I promise that I will always love you.

I am sorry and I love you. ( your name )

I know its sortoff filmy but I bet, your partner cant help but smile and forget all her angerness. Try it! It will definitely work. *wink*

Patch up!

Where there is love there are fights as well, and sometimes it just gets a bit over the top and then the blame game starts, but one thing is for sure that whosoever is wrong should say sorry and try to make up again. So heres a fun way to make up with your partner,

Just take a picture of her in which she is happy and smiling, stick it on a piece of paper and write. ( you can copy the samething and give to her, theres no need to be original all that matters is what you feel about your partner and what you want to convey through what you write )

“ dear ( your partners name ) this is the smile that I fell in love with. It lights up the room, it lights up my life, and I cannot imagine a day without it. When we fight, it becomes dark and I cant think straingt until we figure things out. I don’t want to miss your smile for one more minute.

I promise that I never mean to hurt you when I am angry and I promise that I will always love you.

I am sorry and I love you. ( your name )

I know its sortoff filmy but I bet, your partner cant help but smile and forget all her angerness. Try it! It will definitely work. *wink*

Anniversay

Celebrating anniversaries is the perfect time for showing tou love to your partner. With the time that you have spent together, why not celebrate the fact that you have been together as long as you have ( and it can be months or years).you can do some of the following with you partner.

- go back to where you met and take a new picture

- head to your first date spot.

- Try on your wedding outfit again ( if you are married) and take a new picture.

- Take a small bell and give it to your partner that they can carry around or hang or store at home. Each year, give them another to show that your relationship is getting longer and longer. For example, you might want to give a collector stamps, or ring, or a bracelet and one more to add to their collection for each year that you are together. ( this is ideal to do on you first anniversary, but nevermind if you have already missed it, if this is your 2^nd or 3^rd anniversary, then you can give them 2 or 3 of them and then from that onwards give them one each on every anniversary)

Anniversay

Celebrating anniversaries is the perfect time for showing tou love to your partner. With the time that you have spent together, why not celebrate the fact that you have been together as long as you have ( and it can be months or years).you can do some of the following with you partner.

- go back to where you met and take a new picture

- head to your first date spot.

- Try on your wedding outfit again ( if you are married) and take a new picture.

- Take a small bell and give it to your partner that they can carry around or hang or store at home. Each year, give them another to show that your relationship is getting longer and longer. For example, you might want to give a collector stamps, or ring, or a bracelet and one more to add to their collection for each year that you are together. ( this is ideal to do on you first anniversary, but nevermind if you have already missed it, if this is your 2^nd or 3^rd anniversary, then you can give them 2 or 3 of them and then from that onwards give them one each on every anniversary)

Birthdays!

Birthdays are a celebration of the time when yours partner came into the world and everntually into your life.

There are plenty of ways to celebrate their birth in a loving and joyful way.

- send them a card in the mail with birthday wishes – everyone likes to get mail. If you can, try to conceal that ints from you until they open it.

- Send them a small token for their birthday at their place of work – you can also send the birthday card here or send flower. Try to keep it small if your partner isn’t a big dan of getting a lot of attention.

- Make sure to create some sort of a plan for the day.

- Always remember the day.

- Create a special birthday cake and make sure its their favorite flavor.

Birthdays!

Birthdays are a celebration of the time when yours partner came into the world and everntually into your life.

There are plenty of ways to celebrate their birth in a loving and joyful way.

- send them a card in the mail with birthday wishes – everyone likes to get mail. If you can, try to conceal that ints from you until they open it.

- Send them a small token for their birthday at their place of work – you can also send the birthday card here or send flower. Try to keep it small if your partner isn’t a big dan of getting a lot of attention.

- Make sure to create some sort of a plan for the day.

- Always remember the day.

- Create a special birthday cake and make sure its their favorite flavor.